SELF RESPECT

SUPPORT OVER SELF-RESPECT

It is tough to live without any support in any field when we are alone, if our views differ from everyone but do we really need support.











Sometime we expect a lot from everyone but we get nothing, infact we lose our way.



As a result we lose the purpose of doing anything which is beneficial for us.






We tend to loose our way in the dark highway with no light to follow. Thus we feel depressed and as a result we think ourselves weak and thus we are unable to respect the God hidden inside all of us.







We should never loose hope even if we don’t get proper support to practice any spiritual or anything for the purpose of growth of mankind.








We should never look back, when nothing works, the calmness of mind works.






In the dark highway, if we have patience, then something along the highway is going to ignite a spark with extraordinary amount of light, and will make us feel better.






I am telling this to the reader because it was my past experience, I went into this dark highway and was depressed, it was the calmness of my mind that helps me to recognize this light.




Let us take an example of modern city, how spirituality can be implemented for the growth of mankind.


Suppose you are with your friends talking to each other and you are in a bus.





You all are having fun eating some food material as a result of which after sometime when you all finish it off, the material wrapper was thrown down and suppose you are the one who are blessed with the mission for the growth of mankind, you stop your friend to throw it, as a result they make fun of you and in front of everyone you pick the wrapper and keep it in your pocket or baggage to throw it into a dustbin.




Some people may think that you don’t have any self-respect but the reality is the opposite.








You might be a fool according to majority of people watching you but those who have seen you might realize it in future and as a result some of them may start the same practice as you did, in such a situation, this thinking you can get only after the calmness of mind (infinite patience).






Even if one person out of everyone there follows you in future, then you can get tremendous amount of respect from the God hidden inside you.
So you can also follow the principle of spirituality provided you are honest in whatever you do. It will be tough for you in the beginning, but you should never forget that for getting honest respect from God there is always hurdles.





The fruit after such hurdles have more sweetness than any sweet in the universe.
I am trying to tell you about self-respect, the maximum amount of it a person can get only from God hidden inside all of us. So if you get respect from there then there is no need for any materialistic respect which doesn't have any cause for the growth of mankind.







I am not forcing you to follow spirituality it is always your wish.













Conclusion:-Why are we shy of doing good things?








Those who are already doing such thing will get respect and those who may not have done this earlier, i believe they will at least start thinking.








By Vishal Sinha